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Originally posted by norcalchick
I'm sorry, but your brother needs to get some balls and dump her or put her in her place. They obviously aren't mature enough to get married if they're like that. They need to go date some more people or something. I understand sticking up for your SO, but saying that "you'd never disagree with her because that's the way love is" isn't right. The problem isn't just her, it's your brother also. He needs to speak up if all of this going on and if she's obviously hurting your family.
Sorry for sounding so harsh... I'm PMSing
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Hallelujah, somebody else saw that too!
Your brother is going to explode (or implode) one day. During the 1st month of their marriage, when he is fed up with her bossing him around, he'll get a backbone and tell her off (or worse).
Hopefully this marriage will work out and they both will grow during this time - marriage IS hard work.
Now as far as you're concerned, go to the rehearsal dinner, go to the wedding, smile as though everything is fine, and keep moving! Nothing would probably make her happier than to see you "boycott" the rehearsal dinner and wedding. I really don't think talking with your brother is going to work, because as someone stated before, he is blind right now. But you'll be grateful later that you didn't cause a big stink.