Since we go to the same school I will give you a situation that worked for me. I mean rather it worked on me. She just lived her life to the fullest, started hanging out with new people, did everything that made her happy. At mixers I would see her and she would be having the time of her life, not feeling awkward being at my house. She was going uptown with her sisters, and was just loving it. I think actually she was over me completely, but I did notice. Brothers would come home from other houses and say, "Hey, I saw your ex at Sig Chi tonight, she was having a blast" We are not back together, but we talk now, and we hang out sometimes. I got interested in her again, because I saw she was leading a perfectly happy life without me, which I thought was impossible, and it made me interested. Not sure if this helps, but it worked on me. Good Luck and I will see you in the fall at a mixer.
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