Hmmmm. Well one thing that might get me going is if you totally acted as if you didn't care about his acts of making you jealous, etc. That might make him think, hmmm it's not working. I know from past expiriences that if soemone puts on the fact that they don't care about what I say, than it bugs me. It makes me wonder what is wrong, than try not to be mean or do other things to bug you the next time.
Sorry, can't come up with a good answer to the question but hope that helps a little
