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Old 10-20-2004, 08:20 PM
wrigley wrigley is offline
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Originally posted by Eclipse
No one can treat you badly without your consent.

I think it is easy to blame your FSIL for being evil and all of that, but the bigger responsibility lies with your brother. Is he aware that you are not on the "invite" for the rehersal dinner? (and BTW, I agree with everyone who has said that the bride to be and her parents cannot tell your family who they can and cannot invite--unless of course, you guys let them. See opening statement) What was his response to you not being invited to be in the wedding?
Her brother right now is in la-la land and will continue to live there until he and bridezilla hit a rough patch during the marriage.
If preciousjeni says anything to her brother and the bridezilla drama, he won't hear a thing. It will be a Peanuts moment, like when the teacher speaks to Charlie Brown and as you hear her say is "Waw wah waw wah waw wah"

Let bridezilla and her mom put dancing bears and clowns on the guest list for the rehearsal dinner, it doesn't mean they will get to go. I agree with everyone who said show up to the rehearsal dinner. Make sure you, mom, and dad look absolutely fabulous.

As for being put on punch or guestbook duty,thank her for the offer but she can pass that honor to someone else who could do a way better job than you.
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