You don't think your brother isn't going to be upset when they are a ll at the dinner and your not there. If anything
that will cause uproar will be comments made about that. It is bad enough she didn't honor his request by having you as a bridesmaid but to axe you out of the dinner too.....he will start putting two and two together and then you will have an upset groom.

I would show just to spite her and make her cause a scene and then she will be asked why you werent even invited to be involved inthe wedding and let alone the dinner.



I need to stop because i am rehasing the anger i had towards my sister in law and the wedding. hehe.

Serious though, i bet if you showed up nothing will be said ...i mean really is she going to say why are you here in front of your brother and your family....she be pretty stupid to do that