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Originally posted by preciousjeni
The bride and her mother are in complete control of the wedding. They sent their rehearsal dinner guest list to my parents. It's simply etiquette that my parents are paying for the dinner.
Also, my parents are offended that I'm not on the guest list, so they are just letting it go because I asked them to. I don't want them to get too emotional and make waves in this already difficult situation.
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I'd hate to break the news to your future SIL's family...they don't get the final say on who is to be invited...unless they are hosting the event! As your family is hosting the event (regardless of obligation or not),
they get to determine the final list...NOT your future in-laws!!!
Get out an Emily Post book for this family...they don't understand the meaning of etiquette! (Now I'm getting mad for you! LOL)