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Old 10-20-2004, 02:32 PM
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Re: Re: Not in the Wedding?

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Originally posted by AChiOAlumna
I'm agreeing with everyone else, but the only question I have is if your parents are hosting the rehearsal dinner, then why aren't you invited to the dinner? The hosts make up the guest list, not the bride/groom (although they usually have input). As you are immediate family, then you should automatically be on the top of the list!

So what are we missing that you've been excluded from this event?
The bride and her mother are in complete control of the wedding. They sent their rehearsal dinner guest list to my parents. It's simply etiquette that my parents are paying for the dinner.

Also, my parents are offended that I'm not on the guest list, so they are just letting it go because I asked them to. I don't want them to get too emotional and make waves in this already difficult situation.
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