[AKA_Monet]

AlphaGamDiva,

Like everyone else has stated, it would be very unwise to go...

Even "rationalizing" a road trip with sorority sisters still does not give you justification in going...

Either way, you will have your feelings hurt... Because within 2 seconds of seeing homeboy, all your "lovey-dovey-ness" will be amplified 100000000000 times... And all brain power will go to the toilet...

Homey KNOWS how to play... He WILL be sweet within your "minimizing" time frame--then where would that put you and your feelings?

Since you are more than insistant on going near that fool, then ask yourself this question: Are you going to have fun with girlfriends without rationalization of it? Or are you going to see sparks fly given the sordid history that you all told us? And you are probably going to do both...

So in that instance, you are allowing yourself to be "doormatted"... Accept your "wishy washiness" and have the best fcuk in town... Do not bring ANY $$$... And leave when you need to--meaning if there is dead silence other than sleeping, and the conversation is estranged, then go... Do not stay, you will only get hurt... Do what Kantrelle Blu says, make sure to blow up his credit card and get everything you can--no madda how it looks, come out on top...

My point being, if you gonna allow yourself to be pimped and prostituted (like dat), then do as the playas do, play the role all the way--don't do it half-assed--make that money and clock those dollars...

If you gonna be hardcore, swing it like that... And move on... 'Cuz obviously, you wanna set yourself up and hey, it's gonna hurt anyways--at least minimize the severity of the pain...