I am one of these people that if you want to get married then get married. If you don't want to get married, then, don't get married. I honestly don't think those people who don't get married are really missing out on a life well spent/lived/whatever. Maybe these single-for-life-people are much happier not being married. I hate it when people try to make people feel bad for not ever getting married or getting married again. I just say let people live.