Well . . you are a cool girl.
If you were just some unfortunate looking, passive agressive, low-self-esteem waste of a pair of X-chromosones like some girls I know, I would say go and get your groove on, because not only will you never get anyone better, but you really don't deserve better either.
But since you have a lot more going on than that, why cater to someone that undervalues you?
Especially when you can cater to people that will value you highly.
I mean damn, even a true player that just wants to hang with you and have fun will usually be a pleasure to be around before he moves on.
Never ever hang with people that bring out your weak traits, your insecurities, your flaws, only allow people that bring out the best thats inside you access to your life.
If that were a girl that treated me badly I would rather sodomize myself with a 2-foot dildo than admit to myself that I was so weak I was at her beck and call by going . . . regardless of how I had rationalized the trip to myself.
OH, in case I didn't mention it: I don't think you should go
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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
dammit, james.......why must you make sense NOW? 
nothing is firmly decided....i mean, we know the plan, but it's not in concrete.
desperate skank....ouch. that right there may keep me from going........
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