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Originally posted by breathesgelatin
Rape. This is rape.
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Yes. She has to understand this. As does the person that did this to her. This is
NOT okay. This:
"wow I had sex with a cute boy, I wish I could remember it. It might have been a good time." is a very frightening statement to me. This is NOT her fault, this is NOT her "my bad." This was COMPLETELY and UTTERLY WRONG of that guy to do this to her.
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I felt kind of bad after talking to her because I wondered if I had made a situation that would have rapidly faded into a more significant event.
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It would not have rapidly faded. Trust me. It would have come back later and could be potentially more damaging if she does not deal with it now.
Be supportive, be encouraging. Let her talk things out or figure things through alone. Suggest going to visit a counselor, even if it's just to tell her story to an impartial person.