I took some "time off" the beginning of this year (about a month) but was told by an alumna that I know that you can't take a "leave of absence" from the sorority. I can't go inactive because there are a bunch of inactives already this year, and suspending myself is the last thing I want to do. When I took my time off all I did was call the recording secretary every single time I had to miss something and exec would approve it. The only people who know something is up is the sisters on exec and that is because they have to go over excuses for missing things so they can be approved. Right now I am doing the minimum we have to do.
Thanks for some of your replies though, I've never been in counseling and it makes me nervous. I really do appreciate it.
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