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Originally posted by sugar and spice
It is a hundred percent true that sex industry workers are likely to have been sexually abused. But do you think that maybe they go into the sex industry because it provides them a measure of control over sexual situations, unlike their hitsory with sexual abuse? If that is empowering to them, why should I care?
Is it victimization if the victim doesn't feel victimized?
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Not to say you think like anyone on the Real World Heather

but last night Sarah said the same thing - that the reason she is always pursuing men is because she was raped at a young age and if she makes the first move it puts her in the position of power.
Whether it really is a more powerful vantage point is debatable, but that is a topic for another day.