that first woman wouldn't have shouted at that mother is she were Black mother. unless the first woman was suicidal

i was so mad at that woman for walking all over that mother's pain. i wonder if the first woman saw the movie and saw herself on the screen yelling at her like she did. if i were her friend/relative, i'da let her know about herself.
it is sad tht the Bush government won't allow pix of the flag-draped coffins to be shown. but then if they did, more people would speak out against this "shoawar"-sham of a war...