[SapphireSphinx9]

both of my parents are very anti-greek! actually most of my family is, with the exception of one aunt and uncle. even my grandpa is, and he was in a local fraternity out in oklahoma and part of the masons!!

so to say the least, when i was founding, i heard nothing but complaints about joining a sorority... and even to this day i still hear it.

but i brush it off, and do my own thing, because this is what i want to do, and what i enjoy doing.

i don't really have any advise for you, other than to try and give the parents more of an understanding that it's more than just parties and drinking.

good luck!