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Old 10-13-2004, 11:26 AM
Taualumna Taualumna is offline
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Originally posted by RACooper
Happens a little more often up here... usually it requires a call or meeting with the parents to lay-out the benifits of a Fraternity as well as countering the negative perceptions they have of a Fraternity. However I have seen it happen three times while a recruitment chair... it is unusual that you couldn't find a way to remove their major objection, but sometimes the parents are just dead-set against their kid joining and they won't listen to anything you say.
Do these "issues" generally come from students who are first generation university students or from parents who did not attend a school with a Greek system? I'd assume that if the parents went to say, U of T as well, that they might know something about it, especially since more people were Greek in the past (when did the number of Greeks at U of T drop, anyway?). In terms of "ethnic" students who are first generation Canadian, many of their parents don't even know what fraternities and sororities are. At Thanksgiving dinner this year, a man said that his daughter was living off campus and paying $X. I said that the cost sounded similar to living in a sorority house. He then looked at me funny and asked me what sororities are.
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