Well I have to say that I sorta disagree with the notion of approaching someone about becoming a member. I am sorta against having honorary membership(that's just my humble opinion, everone is free to disagree with me)
Personally I feel that if Kappa is in your heart, then you will work to gain membership, and there will be no need of honorary membership. I can understand a person wanting after many decades to be a member, but that should be of their choosing, not for us to decide for them.
If they had that burning love in their heart for Kappa, they would have been knocking at that door themselves. This goes to another topic me and my LB were having today about our intake, and who we let in. We have to be really carefull about who we bring into our frat.
There is just something in me that is totally against asking someone if they want to join my organization. I start to think, is this person going to really work to uphold our ideals and goals. Of course we would only approach them if we thought this, but still something about this just doesn't sit right with me. Can't put my finger on it, but I just don't like it.
MN
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