I haven't purchased the book yet, but I did see the author on Oprah. Ironically, I've liberated myself from defining my worth based on whether the guy is interested in me or not.
The way I see it, if I make a call to a guy and he doesn't call me back it means,
1. that my call wasn't important enough to him to call me OR
2. I didn't happen to cross his mind to such that he would pick up the phone and call me back.
In any case, If a guy doesn't call me back, I WILL NOT call him again until he does. (Its just plain rude not to return a person's call)
AND IF that means I never talk to him again, then so be it. The way I see it, I'm worthy of the interest and attention of a man and if he is interested, I won't have to "force" it out of him...he needs to pursue me!!
Should he decide to call me back, he needs to be in pursuit of me at that point, (i.e.....asking me out on a date, trying to get to know me better, etc.), otherwise, I'm not calling him again.
Trust me, I'm single, but I'm not desperate....men are like buses.....if you miss one, you can catch the next one that comes by.
