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I think you should keep your personal business out of recruitment, and let this woman have a chance to make friends. We all say stupid things from time to time, and if she is saying mean things about other chapters, word does tend to travel. She won't last long in recruitment if that is the case, and if she joins a chapter where she doesn't fit, she or they will come to realize it and part company soon enough.
If you write a letter to the chapter presidents of the sororities she is COB'ing, your name might get thrown in the mud, and it could be very uncomfortable for you.
Let your ex-friend go through recruitment. People do change over time, and do grow. Let her have a chance to make that change.
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