Interesting question!
If a boy friend wont support you for what you want to do with your life, then what does He want to do with Your Life?
If you are a Freshman, then you both are to young to decide what is right for both of you. Love is Grand. It is a proven fact that there are 10,000 partnerships of possibility out there.
Joining a GLO (Greek Letter Organization) is something that expands your life, friendship, and knowledge along with if and when you become an Officer How to operate an Officership of a Major Operating Company. Oh Yes, a Sorority/Fraternity is a Business and should be run as such.
OKAY, I have been doing this for 40 years and I can call a Brother when I have a problem, no matter what!
That in a nut shell is what you can get from a GLO! Life long friendships that continue 40 Years later!