[PhoenixAzul]

I pledged last year, and I actually recieved my bid on our two year anniversary! But at any rate...he was really against my joining, but in the end he realized how much it meant to me. He came to our formal and has met all of our sisters, and he thinks that it was something good for ME. It was another home for me while I was miles away from home (I go to school out of state). Pledging is time consuming, but so are relationships...you'll have to find the balance. I think that finding meaningful relationships with women is worth the time.