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Re: Question for Greeks
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Originally posted by Christal
also i have seen alot of people change after they rush. whats your view on that. i know there are the typical sterotypes, which none i really fit, but i still like the idea. have you guys seen your relationships with others change?
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As far as people changing, joining a sorority only changed me for the better. I am more organized. I do more for my community and I'm more involved on campus.
Those who change negatively (become stuck up/shut non-greek friends out) do so by choice. They are DEFINED by their letters. YOU make the sorority. The sorority should NEVER make or define you.
Your boyfriend should support anything you choose to do that is going to benefit you in a positive way. Your relationship shouldn't be "ruined" b/c you want to expand your horizons. Lifetime sisterhood is (in my opinion) worth missing a couple dinner dates, etc. with the boyfriend. He theoretically should understand your desire to have a close group of girl friends.
You again have to do what you feel is best for you 
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