Don't worry about it, Carolina DG.
About SKEPi, when you have a lot of time and need some entertainment, check out these threads,which include posts from, and usually were started by, one particular poster who wanted to found a local sorority sort of kind of thing, strikingly similar to Sigma Kappa but, of course, not modeled on Sigma Kappa at all:
http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums...der=descending
As for SHIM, let's just say it is for people for whom the pronouns "she" and "him" might be equally appropriate.