Yeah... I've been one to tell some stories that make the actives' jaws drop. (heh)
My attitude might change once I'm older, but for now, I simply try to act like everyone else when I'm there. Have a good time. Meet sisters that I haven't met before. Share stories, and just enjoy sisterhood.
I can't honestly say anything bad-- it was hard getting in contact with them, but once I *did* it's been fantastic. Maybe they were too intimidated to really get in touch with me at first or something!
(I don't bite... unless they want me to

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