agreed.  i went to one wedding that at first i thought was a buffet, but come to find the buffet part was just the appetizers.  we ended up having a nice sit down meal with filet mignon and chicken (yeah, two meats 

, but very good).  then the dessert bar was a buffet style as well.  they had cake on the buffet, but also had cookie, eclairs, etc.  it was very fun and very nice.
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