I realized I forgot to describe my own wedding
I have always said I was going to use my dress from my cotillion for my wedding - and I might. I had it made, but its based on a Vera Wang. Its dupioni silk (raw silk) and its very simple. Its sleeveless and has several seams all around the bodice. Its absolutely gorgeous. Although, I'd probably add some pearls around the neckline and hemline if I wore it for my wedding.
I want to get married at Holy Name of Jesus Church in New Orleans (its the church on the campus of Loyola University). Its where my parents were married. Haven't decided on the reception yet.
I know my cousin will be my maid of honor (even though she's only 10 now) and her little sister will be the flower girl. Their older brother will be a groomsman. Actually, if I don't walk down the aisle by myself, I'll have him give me away (my dad died when I was 14).
I want a regular "wedding cake flavor" cake, with a basket weave pattern and live flowers on top.
And for the entertainment, Jimmy Buffett, of course! (although, I hear private parties come 2 million a pop, so I should start on the get-rich qick scheme pretty soon

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