"Hello Ladies,
I am looking for someone that could please help me get started with the AI process. I have read about some wonderful sororities-fraternities and would love to get involved! If you would be interested in helping me please feel free to PM or email me! Thanks SO much!!"
Breeza
Although I agree it is sometimes not an easy process, other times it can be.... my mother is an alumna initiate and the process was very smooth and not a torture at all and I know she loves it.... with that being said, you asked if someone could help you get started.... here are two ways I would consider moving forward... please know these are nothing official from my organization but just my two cents....
1. Do you know anyone involved in a chapter? If so, talk to that person about their chapter, just in an truly interested way, let them tell you about their sisterhood and see if it is something you are interested in.... if so , show your interest and mention sometime (not on your first discussion) how you wish you had joined a sorority. You might ask then or at another time if their organization does AI. You might mention that you have heard that some chapters do. IF so you and your friend can start from that point.
2. the other option is to contact the organizations via their Headquarters.
From this point it will be different for every chapter.... but you only asked for a start. Good Luck and although as mentioned it can be lots of work, it is worth it and I admire your desire to be involved in one of the best experiences of your life...
Tasha