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My husband doesn't get it, but after almost 10 years of marriage, he understands that it's important to me. He gets jealous if he thinks I'm spending too much time on AOII stuff (like when I was a chapter adviser). I've tried to talk to him about sorority stuff (NOT ritual) before and he just has no concept. The part that gets him is the balance between "sisterhood" and the fraternity as a business.
My husband is not an overly social person, so he's not too into going to events, regardless of whether they are sorority related or not. But, he does if I ask him to.
I think that part of it is that his brother was in a fraternity and it was nothing but an excuse to get out of his parent's house and party, so it's hard for him to think of it any other way.
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