My husband gave me the "go ahead" to try for Alumnae Initiation, and he's been supportive, but he REALLY doesn't understand.
We went to college together, and he knows how hard it was for me to decline my original bid. I agonized over it, and at the time, he was my best friend (not boyfriend), so he heard it all. Nonetheless, he doesn't really "get it."
I believe that a good S.O. will support your desires as long as they aren't harmful or damaging to your relationship. If either of these two things are the case, then you need to evaluate things.
LM
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