I think the brothers would feel more at ease and be more forthcoming if they knew a little more about you. When were you there; when did you graduate?
In any event, there's a short article I wrote for our last newsletter if you'd like to take a look.
http://www.bnzeta.org/docs/newsletters/betanews(2004-10).html
Scroll down to "General Assembly, Chapter 2".
ZAX,
Jono