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Originally posted by Queencece
He says that one of two things are running through his mind. One, he really is serious and thought about maybe having kids in the future or AT LEAST is open to the possibility OR that he is going to tell me what I want to hear just to temporarily fix things.
To the guys: Is the last sentence true? Do you all say things to girls just so that they will stop fussin about whatever you said/did?
I don't know what's going to happen, but I will hear him out. I will talk to him rationally and calmly.
Thank you for all your viewpoints.
Q
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Far be it from me in how a guy thinks, because I am a woman...
But your friend is right about your love's 2 things running thru his mind... And it is not one or the other--it's both.
Some people like to have their cake and eat it too...
Now you have to ask yourself do you want "it" to work out with this particular guy? Because apparently you do by going out with him tonight... I'd say have an open mind. Have expectations of yourself--how you expect to be treated and respected. How you expect to treat him and respect him.
And I am not feeling such a private place that you all shared when you all were fancy free and dating. That is somewhat a "borderline" mind game that is about to get played... But that's my opinion... However, in most serious discussions, there will be times that it might get heated, so please let a friend or somebody you can always trust know where you are and when you are expected home--a park can be isolating... And my opinion is, (and I admit, I could be wrong), he dumped you showing you how his lack of trustworthiness--and he has lost his "regaining trust back" with you by asking you to take you that "special place" to discuss anything... But that's my opinion...