navane, I think you are totally right, dont just feel sorry for the Member, Members, Fraternity/Soroity, and Family.
Dammit, just do something about it. How long does it take for Greeks to understand that death, feeling saddened and getting closed to come to the realization. This is wrong!
No matter what, it cost Greeks not only Rish Management Insurance, but Members and Chapters.
Please, Please, use some good judgement and remember, these are our Interfraternal Brothers and Sisters.