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Update.....
He called me last night and wanted to get back with me. At first I said no way because there is not going to be a second chance to break my heart. Then, he said that he would rather talk in person before I made up my mind. So, tonight @ 7pm he is picking me up and taking me to my favorite place (park) to talk and see what we can come up with.
Before I made the decision to see him I politely asked him what he wanted from me and why he couldn't just leave me alone. Basically, I was lashing out from being hurt. He asked me if we could work this out. I said, how when you were ADAMANTLY sure that there was no compromise and/or other way to solve this problem. He said, my mind can change. I was like, how? Did you suddenly realize that you were a JERK? That's when he asked to see me before I just walked away.
I went into work to talk to a guy that has helped me in the past with the way guys think. He says that one of two things are running through his mind. One, he really is serious and thought about maybe having kids in the future or AT LEAST is open to the possibility OR that he is going to tell me what I want to hear just to temporarily fix things.
To the guys: Is the last sentence true? Do you all say things to girls just so that they will stop fussin about whatever you said/did?
I don't know what's going to happen, but I will hear him out. I will talk to him rationally and calmly.
Thank you for all your viewpoints.
Q
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