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Originally posted by valkyrie
I see what you're saying. I personally would be worried about making a big emotional investment in someone knowing that there's a good chance we'd get to a point in the future where there would be no way to work out our differences on an issue. I'm kind of odd though (ha!) in that I have a pretty large list of deal-breakers that would cause me to not get involved with someone who might be really cool but doesn't meet my mad crazy specifications. 
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Her point though is that here, the emotional investment would be totally unrelated to kids, since the relationship is no longer a sexual/long-term type one, but rather one of friendship . . . this conveniently leaves what some would describe as a girl's dream situation intact, whereby he realizes how dumb he is and falls all over her feet, changes his mind, and decides to have kids - but we'll ignore that for now, and pretend like "just friends" is the real goal.