I'm really sorry to hear that you're hurt and upset right now, but I really think this is for the best.
Wanting or not wanting kids is absolutely not something to compromise on ever. It's also not fair to get into a relationship with someone and expect that he'll change his mind eventually, or for him to expect that you'd change your mind eventually.
I am very, very set on the fact that I do not want kids ever and will not change my mind, so if I ever started dating a guy and found out that he wanted kids, I'd break it off right away. It's too big of a life issue to get past disagreement, in my opinion.
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