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Originally posted by 33girl
If you're a not so close friend, you shouldn't even be at the shower.  This is something that drives me nuts - showers that are almost as big and elaborate as the wedding. IMO, they should be for bridesmaids, CLOSE friends and close family only.
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Heh. So true. I went to a bridal shower where the bride-to-be openly admitted she didn't know most of the people there (about 100+).
ETA: Oh, and I try to buy off the registry for the bridal shower, and then give money at the wedding. If I'm not invited to the bridal shower (which, btw, I'm okay with) then I'll usually buy a gift for the wedding.