[astroAPhi]

I really like that date package idea.

When I was a bridesmaid, I got her a whole bunch of stuff from their registry, but I split it with my boyfriend because he was a groomsman. We got a shower massager for her (she was very stressed), a barbeque set for him, and fondue plates for both (since we knew the other couple in the wedding had gotten them a fondue set). I know some people think you should spend a ton of money if it's a close friend, but we were both broke from renting tuxes, buying dresses, shoes, and we were both still in college. And I dropped a lot of money paying for the shower itself.

I'm going to a wedding in a few weeks for an old high school friend. I have no idea who her husband-to-be is, so I kinda got something that was more for her. She had a foot spa on her registry, and since she has a 15-month old to run after, I figured she needed to relax! She loved it.

I realized I give a lot of "relaxing" gifts. Hmmm...