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Originally posted by 33girl
I didn't realize she was an advisor....that's different.
Lots of groups have policies that say you cannot be an advisor, especially to your chapter, if you have been out less than five years - just because it's very very hard to look at girls you have lived with, partied with and shared your love life details with and tell them "well this and that is what you should be doing."
Many times, these rules have been relaxed because there simply isn't the pool of women that there used to be for advisors - but I would advise (no pun) that she resign her position ASAP. She can maybe advise at another chapter or volunteer for the sorority in another capacity, but for now it sounds like this situation is not working at all and not fair to her or the collegians.
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Sorry...I should've been more clear.....mea culpa...
I believe she's been out for about 4-5 years now, but she did end up resigning and began working with othr chapters and on a national level as a recruitment specialist helping out other chapters...I think the clear air has helped rejuvenate her enthusiasm towards the organization again...fortunately...especially since she has SO much to offer!