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Originally posted by GinaD79
"but how do people decide on an organization by not personally knowing a member or see first hand how the organization works?"
In the case of establishing a chapter far away from already existing chapters, how can a woman really even see how the organization works? preciousjeni, I took a look at your organization after you posted, and it looks as though you ladies have branched out to several different locations, often times where a nearby chapter does not already exist. I imagine this is quite a challenge for the organization as well as the interested ladies. How does Theta Nu Xi deal with this challenge?
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In many cases, the aspirants do have a chance to meet Theta Women before they make any decisions. Often, however, the women simply do internet research and find out about Theta Nu Xi.
However, and I can only speak for my organization, the process for setting up a colony is intense, difficult and requires the dedication of a few good women. I don't see ANY way that you could make a mistake as to whether or not you truly want to be a Theta Nu after you've begun the colonization process. The interaction between the Sorors and the aspirants is constant and it is made very clear that the aspiring women are under no obligation to complete any process set forth. It is also a policy that we treat women who have discontinued the process with the utmost respect as they have made the mature decision to step back from Theta Nu Xi until a time when they are more able to fulfill our expectations.
Don't be fooled by our youth. We have our stuff together and if you approach us, you better have your own stuff together.
We are NOT the org to join if you want to be a letter-wearer.
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"I know so many people that picked an organization because the colors were cute . . . "
I have brought up the question about colors and website on GC before in regards to interest. How do others on GC feel about this issue? Is it more impressive to an interest to have fabulous colors? What are interests really looking for?
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LOL! I've heard the color comments before too.
One thing I really appreciated about Theta Nu Xi in the beginning was that only select information is put on the website. You won't find our symbol, mascot, colors, flower, etc. explicity laid out for all to see. These things are special to the Sorors and hold no value for anyone else. What IS on the site is information about how to find Theta Women in your area as well as a great deal of explanation about the mission of our Sorority.