[QUOTE]Originally posted by James:
- Have you ever cheated on a significant other.
Not yet . . .
- Should you/did you tell them that you
did. Exceptions?
I am not sure if I would tell, if it was indicative of a problem . . . I would probably just break it off with them and NOT tell them.
- Would you want to know? Why?
Not sure if I would want to know . . . Some girl got upset with me when she broke up because I didn't want to know what her reasons were. I just replied that I am sure she considered the matter carefully and I would have to respect her decision, and said good bye . . . for good. I am still not sure why this flipped her out 
any thoughts or was she just insane like most women? 
. I would definitely want to know if it was going to continue . . . and if I am going to find out it better be from her.
- What would you do if you found it they did that to you? Stay together etc?
Probably not . . . oh maybe for a little bit while I still had mixed emotions, but I am sure that unconsciously I would slowly become more and more bitter and secretly begin to hate her. I would also feel cheated out of all the opportunities I had to be with others that I missed out on. Best case scenario: I would look at it as a get-out-of-jail-free card that I would have to use. e.g. I would probably cheat on her back if I stayed.
[This message has been edited by James (edited May 20, 2001).]
[This message has been edited by James (edited May 20, 2001).]