I have an aunt who I love, I really do......but she makes me crazy. She is 14 years older than I and yet I constantly have to be the one to take care of her and give her advice. She is also very self-destructive....she's terrified of getting sick or dying young and yet she refuses to take care of herself. She has been totally paranoid about heart disease ever since my mom (her big sister) died 3 1/2 years ago but she continues to get more and more obese.
She calls me and vents about how unhappy she is about pretty much everything in her life.....it is very depressing. I wish she could be fun like she used to be. I also wish she would take care of herself because she had her kids later in life than my mom did and if she kills herself with food and inactivity they're going to be a lot younger when they lose her than I was.
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