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Old 05-18-2001, 01:54 PM
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Have you ever cheated on a significant other

~Yes. Once I cheated on a BF in college. Temptation got the better of me. I really liked my BF too--this isn't an excuse, but we were 5 hours away from each other and saw each other only once a month--if that, but like I said--it's not an excuse.

Should you/did you tell them that you did. Exceptions?

~I broke up with him for the other guy. Of course, that didn't work out! LOL I didn't tell him when we broke up WHY, but about a year after we broke up, I resurfaced and told him. That's when I also found out that he came very close to cheating on me with a mutal friend.

Would you want to know? Why?

~For sure. I'd want to know. Especially now because I'm marrying my SO.


What would you do if you found it they did that to you? Stay together etc?

~I'd take it as a sign that we aren't soul mates and leave him. I believe soul mates carry a connection. If someone cheats on you, the two of you don't hold that connection and you need to find the person that you hold that connection with.

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