[shadokat]

Who knows why some women choose to stay or go? I agree that often times, once a woman is a new member, if she starts to have second thoughts, others will try to convince her to stay. And she may feel that pressure and stay, but ultimately, nobody can make the woman do what she doesn't want to do. I applaud her that she at least deactivated. I've seen some instances like there where the woman just falls off the face of the earth, stops attending meetings, events, rush, etc., and the chapter ends up footing the bill...