I just graduated this May and have moved 600 miles away from my undergrad to go to graduate school. The hard part for me is that there are still sisters who are active that I came in with, but have not graduated yet.
In talking to sisters that are nearby campus, they said it's best to just attend events that you are invited to, chapter wise. Such as initiation, recruitment, alumni events, etc.
I think the hardest part is for sisters who have graduated, but their boyfriends have not. So if they're partying with their boyfriend and sisters are there, that may be hard. Then again, i think some have yet to draw the line between active and alum.
The thing that is going to be hardest for me is the fact that I am going to be advising a local chapter while in graduate school. I hope I will be able to draw the line, a)because I just graduated and b) because these girls are my age. I'm hoping that since i did not know these women as a collegian it will be ok.
My one weakness is though that I am flying down twice this semester to visit my sisters and friends, one is for alumni brunch though.
