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Originally posted by Steeltrap
HC I had a couple of horrid rows AGAIN with my family over my nephew?
HC they were completely preventable?
HC his GF has to come to my birthday dinner?
HC I hope that I don't run into anyone I know?
HC I worry about how I'll be perceived because of his personal life?
HC my mother and I virulently disagree about his GF and her child?
HC she loves her grandson and is willing, even eager, to ACCEPT, not tolerate them?
HC I can barely tolerate either and won't look at the kid?
HC she and my sister are urging me to "give them a chance?"
HC if I give them a chance, I might lose my sororfriends?
HC I'm empathetic about the black man shortage and HC I feel ashamed that a member of my family is contributing to this by dating other women?
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HC it's YOUR birthday, tell them you ONLY want family?
HC if they don't understand and respect your wishes, then maybe it is best if you cancel it?
HC you only turn 40 once?
HC DO IT like YOU want?
HC if your friends, SORORS or NOT, don't accept you because of the choices that your family makes, they're not really your friends?
HC FATR?!!?
HC oh and contact EAP for counselling referrals?
HC make your present to yourself to FEEL as GOOD as you LOOK?
HC get rid of all of the baggage you are carrying?