HC I had a couple of horrid rows AGAIN with my family over my nephew?
HC they were completely preventable?
HC his GF has to come to my birthday dinner?
HC I hope that I don't run into anyone I know?
HC I worry about how I'll be perceived because of his personal life?
HC my mother and I virulently disagree about his GF and her child?
HC she loves her grandson and is willing, even eager, to ACCEPT, not tolerate them?
HC I can barely tolerate either and won't look at the kid?
HC she and my sister are urging me to "give them a chance?"
HC if I give them a chance, I might lose my sororfriends?
HC I'm empathetic about the black man shortage and HC I feel ashamed that a member of my family is contributing to this by dating other women?