[PrettyKittieJ]

OKay here - its seems that some things have gotten out of hand and the reason why this topic was posted in the first place has been lost and forgotten.

Now for those of you who seem to think I wont and cant stand behind my post I do and will. I am a woman of my word. I changed the post b/c some where not taking what I said SERIOUSLY for the fact that it said "pledge" therefore I changed it to "student" and note the sarcastic rolling of the eyes right beside it - which means i knew i was changing it and didnt care who else knew - i mean c'mon it says "edited" with the date and time at the bottom of the post!?!?!

I honestly dont know how you can read the post and think it was disrespectful in anyway and I thought I cleared that up in the second post. Just in case some of you arent getting it - I AGREED WITH ALL OF YOU. And the reason why I put PLEDGE/STUDENT in the post is so that you could realize that there has been a foundation and there are things that the STUDENT expects and sees - and that is one of them. I know my place - I just thought it would help for the person who originally posted this question to see what someone from the other side of the fence thought. That helps - sometimes its nice to have an outside perspective on things - something else that I had stated in the second post.

I added in the second post about my experience with Greek organizations so that those who were skeptical of my post would see that I knew what I was talking about.

Like I said before, Im not educating anyone or giving advice. I was answering the question to the post from a PLEDGE/STUDENT perspective and if that offended anyone - fine so be it - I apologize if it offended you but I WILL NOT apologize or change my opinion.