I'll be honest with you gals..I'm a guy and being in a fraternity I have a wide variety of friends...of course the better looking guys are more often then not the A-holes. These guys have more options, with more girls approaching them. They can afford to screw over a girl as long as they know another one will be along soon. I guess that directly corralates with the not so good looking guys being nicer to girls. I see it all the time in my house...girls think they have found this great guy who they would love to go out with..but in reality the guy could care less about her. I'll admit that I've been guilty of this a few times in the past...but a lot of times girls just catch guys at the wrong time...we aren't ready for the relationship but you are...and for most guys the easiest way to get out of a situation like this is to be an asshole...actually coming out and telling you the truth is too complicated for us guys...which I know is sad ladies. As far as dating the not so attractive guys..don't fool yourself...a personality is great..but more often then not looks are the determining factor, especially in college. I'm not saying this is right at all, most of my buddies that aren't the studs are more interesting people who are a little deeper with a more open-minded view on life. My advice for you ladies (which is just an opinion), date attractive men, date unattractive men..but just don't be so quick to think he's a great guy..test him a little bit, play a little hard to get, unless your just looking to play, in that case, get your freak on...
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