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Originally posted by Ideal08
HC I feel you, I feel you, I feel you (and Soror ST)?
HC it seems like as soon as I get to the point where I am ok with just me, myself, and I; some man comes along and ruins it?
HC you really only have two choices?
HC remain with me, myself, and I?
HC or give it a go again?
HC it's like, ok, If I don't try again, I'm forcing myself to be lonely?"
HC if you do try again, you have to let go of the baggage?
HC you let go of the baggage and inevitably end up getting hurt again?
HC then you kick yourself for having released the baggage in the first place?
HC I am tired of the same sick cycle?
HC right now, I don't even want to meet anyone?
HC I feel like in time, they will just fall off, anyway?
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HC you hit the nail on the head?
HC I was THERE when the former significant other came along?
HC he is a guy that I was friends with in college?
HC we crossed paths many, many times before getting together?
HC I was resigned to being alone, but I ran into him so often that I thought he was the one God sent?
HC I kicked the bags to the curb and went with the flow?
HC it didn't work?
HC now I'm salty all over again?
HC I am FOR REAL through this time!!?
HC being lonely hurts like HELL, but it doesn't compare to loving people who don't love you back?
HC I also don't even want to meet people?
Hc I don't even look men in the face because I don't want them to have the impression that I'm interested?
HC it's not worth it?
HC the cycle is ending right here?
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HC my roommate's mom gave us a little insight?
HC her cousin met a man in college and they were married in less than a year?
HC her mom said that we young people date too long?
HC she said that you will NEVER like anyone all like that?
HC she said that if she had waited longer to marry her husband, and learned some of his ways, she probably wouldn't have married him and woud have missed out on 36 years of a wonderful marriage?
HC that's a tripped out way to look at it?
HC WE always say, "I need to get to know him better?"
HC she said that anyone you get to know THAT well you won't marry?
HC what y'all think?
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HC I am cynical?
HC no disrespect to your roommate's mom, but....?
HC she can say that because she is married already?
HC back in her day it was cool for quick marriages?
HC these days you have to date people long enough to make they don't have their own baggage?
HC DL, wives, family members in the circus, etc.?
HC mom does make sense, but I just don't believe in love anymore?
HC *le sigh*?