Lisa,
He actually mentioned it. I've been through more counseling for more things than I ever care to think about again. I don't believe in it - it's never done anything for me and has been a complete waste of time. I think we're doing a much better job sorting things out on our own than going to see someone who will never understand the complex nature of our relationship. However, I do realize that there may come a time where we would try it - and if that time ever (god forbid) comes, it will be a one time (maybe two time) thing. Thanks for the advice and thoughts!
ZLAM!